Rules of a flawless natural
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Rules of a Flawless Natural - ENJOY!
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Tim
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Tim
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June 18th, 2008 at 7:56 am
I really enjoyed this, thanks Tim!
June 18th, 2008 at 8:04 am
I’m blown away as always. Makes me want to scream that You are not coming to continental Europe in the forseeable future! Cuz it’s all making sense now - no acting, no gimmics, just true emotions. It’s liberating!
As far as questions are conserned - could you expand on minimal game, wchich you mentioned on your blog? Seems like an interesting concept.
Cheers mate, you’re the best!
June 18th, 2008 at 8:11 am
Totally love your vids Tim.
Let’s get away from the chodes’ orbits! LOL
I also enjoy the way you express that flawless wisdom of yours. Way to tell stories!
June 18th, 2008 at 8:28 am
I love the rule system. It’s a great way to motivate yourself, and shatter any sticking points. I can really picture the man full of intent who approaches the girl without hesitation. Awesome explanation mate. Keep up the excellent work Tim. I’m so excited for more videos!!!!
Much love,
Zach
June 18th, 2008 at 9:14 am
Thanks Tim for the videos. There is so much value in these videos I can’t imagine what a Bootcamp must be like.
June 18th, 2008 at 9:19 am
Best video yet. I most enjoyed the “Find your fear, make a rule.” bit, it really allows for the most growth; if you have the balls that is. Combined with the “laser focus” approach my perspective has really changed. Keep up the awesome work.
June 18th, 2008 at 10:03 am
Awesome - I’m trying this as soon as possible.
June 18th, 2008 at 10:05 am
LOL! Orbiter-chodes! Weaselman!:)
June 18th, 2008 at 12:01 pm
Hurry up and put this on DVD
June 18th, 2008 at 1:07 pm
You know how you were talking about if you were in the girls perspective you would imagine that they would like that guy who has that “laser focus” and strong intent..ive had girls say very similar things. like the day after or whatever, they’ll be like “yea i liked how u just came right up to me’ (a lot of the time they had a guy already dancing with them) or “its like you didnt care and had all the control”. So yea, just a little testimony to ur methods. great job.
June 18th, 2008 at 2:35 pm
well holy shit. You’ve made me realize i need to hangout with more guys like yourself. Every single one of my friends are chodes! Whats some good things to talk about with a girl within the first few minutes? any ideas would be awesome. thanks -JD
June 18th, 2008 at 3:17 pm
I dont see the Digg button where is it?
Thanks for the content Tim. I truly enjoy listening to your teachings.
June 18th, 2008 at 4:14 pm
hi Tim
good stuff…
I like it. It’s a pitty you dont answer all of the questions, but i hope one day my will be answered:
My question is : You approach a girl in a club or a pub , than you say ” hi my name is Tim” and than what …..? How do you know that what you will be saying is interesting for her?
Thanks hope to recieve some answer
Regards Jersianno
June 18th, 2008 at 4:33 pm
Awesome stuff man, this puts all written advice to shame. I love how enthusiastic you seem about teaching this stuff, this really is cutting edge right now.
Thanks for answering my question in that other segment too, I was honored.
btw, I tried the amazing sadness opener last night, totally BOMBED. I was so nervous that that “woo” was probably not coming through.
How do you reconcile going straight for the target ‘laser-focus’, with the school of thought that you should befriend the group? I’ve always gotten a bad reaction if I go straight for the hot girl and neglect her less attractive friends.
Would you really bust into a guy-girl conversation and start talking to the girl? I could see you pulling it off with your energy level, but since I lack that congruence and belief I would get tooled by the guy pretty hard.
June 18th, 2008 at 5:07 pm
Wow Tim, another video! Really amazing of you man to contribute so much. I’ve noticed you are getting to a new release either on your blog or video blog almost every day or other day. Thanks a lot we all really appreciate it.
Would you mind covering going solo a little bit more or perhaps talk about it, because its many times tougher I’ve found then going with my buddies.
I try not to pick-up people at work too much, but I’ve used some of the same principles to great success in normal everyday circumstance (breaking report tone with boss is win!) So I’ve used work for experimenting and as a chance to practice social dynamics. I moved to a different city and live on my own for the summer and its actually lead to me creating and getting pulled into different social circles from which I meet women I have success with. Any ‘do’s’ and ‘dont’s’ in this general area (work) you’ve found from your experience?
June 18th, 2008 at 5:34 pm
Loved this vid. Any info to try infield is always awesome.
My question is:
I would like to know what u do personally to “Hook” the girls?
June 18th, 2008 at 5:42 pm
Hi tim!
I’m really amazed at how much good content you can push into these 5-10 minute videoes.
I’m a recovering AFC, and I’m starting to get the hang of some basic stuff og PU, but there’s one thing I really would like to have answered.
How can you have a relaxed attitute towards sex and having it when you haven’t had it yourself? (yes, I admit it, I’m not much with women, but I’m “recovering”)
And secondly… does the way you “handle” shy/modest girls differ from how you “handle” the outgoing/”normal” ones? (not talking approach, but from date/meeting her first time to f-close)
June 18th, 2008 at 6:22 pm
Wow Tim, excellent video, your best on here yet.
Rule 2 is such a mind opener!
I’m glad you have this video blog going, and I can’t wait until you have your own product available to buy.
A quick question though.
I love this idea of just going “boom” blasting through the chodes and meeting up with the girl, my question is, how does this work with big sets, or in a club scene.
This is how I approach during the day, but at night I tend to go about things the MM way, by not talking to her right away, and getting in good with the friends.
If you can elaborate on this more, I would appreciate it. And keep up the great work!
June 18th, 2008 at 7:45 pm
Awesome post, Tim. Laser Focus wins!
After attending a boot camp, I really appreciate having this material drilled into my head as a refresher.
I go out all the time, but sometimes I find myself a spectator, and only hanging out with people I know. These are great tips for helping me stay out of spectator mode, and remember why I’m out: to have as much fun as possible and meet girls. Woohoo!
Lawrence.
June 18th, 2008 at 8:31 pm
Awesome stuff Tim. You really are a giver of value.
I love your concepts regarding breaking rapport tonalities/expressions and LASER FOCUS/genuinely feeling a sexual attraction for the girl in mind… both have boosted my game tremendously [not that it's not already a 10;)] but this creates a wee bit of confusion as I’m not sure how to BALANCE the direct, gut-level attraction with the breaking rapport vibe. I ask this in terms of opening a girl and groups and also the continuation of your interaction after there is attraction in the air… Clearing this up would be KEY!
Thank you, keep up the godly work.
June 18th, 2008 at 10:12 pm
Hey Tim,shithot gear you’re shootin out to us. There is one thing though;you tell us about WOOO+intent but the thing is this.What the fuck can give us the confidence you deliver.Yeah I know you’ll say it comes with experience but shit man not all of us were born with looks and you have to admit, no matter how good your personality is,if you look like the elephant man you’ve got buckleys chance of picking up a honey,any thoughts mate? Sincerely Richard
June 18th, 2008 at 10:15 pm
Hey Tim. Your videos are great and your passion is contagious! My question for you has to do with Magic 8 ball theory. You say you walk up to a girl and just let things pop up into your head. While I have 19 “years of experience” to draw on, I’m not 100% confident that whatever pops into my head will generate interesting, fun conversation. My gut instinct is to either A) just go and introduce myself to the girl and fall back on a safe but often ineffective “how’s it going?” or “what’s up?”, or B) bide my time and try to find some detail about her or the surroundings to start conversation about, and by the time I do I’ve already been established as a chode/weaseler. So: what are some conversational openers you use when doing a cold approach?
June 18th, 2008 at 10:48 pm
Much love dogg.
LASER FOCUS. BOOM.
Love it.
BOOM.
June 19th, 2008 at 12:18 am
Great videos Tim.
These flawless natural methods are great papi and since I have seen these video, I always feel like you are just beside me in the club telling me to do this stuff and I push myself through it.
Thanks again papi
June 19th, 2008 at 12:46 am
How do you deal with a situation in a club where one girl is interacting with about 5 guys around her that appear to be her ‘mulitiple boyfriends’. She is actually grinding with more than one of them?
June 19th, 2008 at 12:51 am
How do you deal with ‘heterosexual’ girls that act like lesbians, in a club environment? These girls are typically kissing and grinding one another?!
June 19th, 2008 at 6:52 am
I absolutley love youre stuff. every time i am out i keep the blueprint and turbo stuff in my mind, like the different concepts.
There is no video out there showing RSD crew live in action is there? That whold be inspering at the least! Or filming a bootcamp? Whold like to se more of girlfriend managing :p
June 19th, 2008 at 7:08 am
Yo Timmy, best video yet.
Can’t find the Dig button sorry, but I do DIG the stuff!
More content videos like this would be awesome.
June 19th, 2008 at 9:53 am
Hey man, love your work!
I have a couple of questions though.
1. What kind of openers do you use during the day? I wanna go direct but i haven’t found the balls to do so yet, cus I have this limiting belief that approaching girls during the day is wierd.
2. The whole dealing with the group thing. how do you go about befriending/dealing with the rest of the group with the flawless natural approach? do you still go in hyperfocused on the girl? And if so, how do you handle the rest of the group after that if she is with a girlfriend og girlfriends for example.
Thanks for the videos Tim!
June 19th, 2008 at 10:14 am
Hey Tim,
cool videos, thanks a lot!
How about some infield clips? That would be so
awesome!!
Can you also talk about state and frame stuff? Would be so interesting!
June 19th, 2008 at 2:20 pm
Flawless Natural Video Blog - Rules of a flawless natural…
Tim from Real Social Dynamics gives you his rules he has for himself when he goes out. Great content video!…
June 19th, 2008 at 3:16 pm
Tim,
How does laser focus work with larger sets? How about with mixed sets? How about does laser focus apply to winning over the group so they dont drag your target away or block you out?
If I laser in right away on my target her squad will protect her because shes the one who gets hit on all the time. I usually do indirect incidental befriending of the group before I go for my target.
Thanks
Tamer
June 19th, 2008 at 3:18 pm
timmie wooooooo!
awesomeness in its purest form haha
quick qestion: how can you be NOT outcome oriented but have intent. aren’t those two opposites?
June 19th, 2008 at 4:10 pm
Really great vids, Tim! I’ve learned a lot already..
One Question: How do you keep the conversation going after the opener? What do you say?
June 19th, 2008 at 4:58 pm
Tim, where is that little DIG button you were talking about? I can’t find it anywhere! Great vid again by the way
June 19th, 2008 at 8:02 pm
You are the Steve Irwin of pickup. This really inspires me to go out.
June 19th, 2008 at 8:57 pm
Wow…not only are the clips very helpful but they are funny as. Lol…”guy trying to weasel in”. I have started using the ‘wooo and intent’ but i feel the attraction going after a while. It’s kinda like what you said…the girls are like “YAH!” then after a while “…no” and they’re gone. I’m trying not to be creepy but i am a newbie. So i will get the girl into me and grinding me but i can always feel it die down, then they are gone. Help would be appreciated.
June 19th, 2008 at 11:42 pm
i like it.
thanks.
June 20th, 2008 at 2:12 am
Awesome stuff Timmy. I just love the simplicity of it.
And I also love your attitude about giving us the principles of the game, rather then the methods.. this way we can successfully select the method of our own!
Keep up your work.. you are totally my instructor!
June 20th, 2008 at 9:00 am
He Tim great blog you got going on here, awesome!
I have a little question, I always been a pretty social guy and know lots of people, when I go out I meet lot of people (men/women) I already know. My goal is too aproach the hottest girls and enjoy them.
But somehow when I am out I am enjoying myself so much with friends I meet, I just forget all this stuff and don“t approach at all. Of course I talk with some girls who are friends of my friends, and then I fool myself saying: you approached and got to know new girls what is all BS.
I know it sounds kinda silly but I dont think at all when I am going out. Do I need to listen more to my manly core?
take care!
June 20th, 2008 at 11:33 am
Much Love Bro,
I wanna hear more about work/war!
PEACE!
June 20th, 2008 at 3:05 pm
Excellent advice as always Tim! Thanks so much for providing this content. You and all of the RSD guys have been such a great help and inspiration to me.
I have a question for you: I have been seeing this girl for a couple of months, and while I like her, I know she is not the kind of girl I really want. However, I find it difficult to get motivated to meet other girls when I can have sex pretty much whenever I want with this girl (path of least resistance I guess). Do you have any advice to help me light the fire under my loins again?
June 20th, 2008 at 3:51 pm
You are the fuckin MAN! Have a great weekend everyone…
June 20th, 2008 at 5:58 pm
Was the girl with any of her girlfriends? What did they think?
June 20th, 2008 at 8:49 pm
Great stuff Tim! I was wondering if you would share your thoughts in the future on relationships for the more advanced natural. It would be great to hear what you have to say about keeping things fresh and interesting with a cherish while also maintaining a lifestyle that includes good habits and is still condusive to your success. Keep it coming man!
June 21st, 2008 at 9:25 am
Wooow!
The first rule it’s something that i’ve found that works REALLY WELL. I should always do that, but sometimes i start thinking and stuff, like “what do i say?” or some other useless rubbish.
One thing you should talk a little bit more is about how to be consistenly in that woooo! state, how to not escape from it, cause it happens that i enter in that state for a while and as soon as i start thinking that im there, i start killing it. So annoying…
Anyway, your blog is pure gold!!
Keept it coming!
Cheers
Chill
June 22nd, 2008 at 9:00 pm
I love these videos Tim!! No doubt I’m gonna go over your full Fearless Natural course on all this. I love natural stuff so much more than most other PUA material based on routines. When I saw you on transformation, I wanted more of your material. Then I found out about this! AWESOME!!
It would be cool to get a video on how you get yourself into WOO state. You know that feeling when you say your gonna be a machine when you go out, but as soon as you get in the club and see all those fit chicks, your mind flips on you and you’re not quite the approach machine you though you were gonna be. How to you deal with this?
Cheers buddy
June 22nd, 2008 at 9:23 pm
Find your fear, make a rule.
Genius!
Love the laser focus bit too.
WOOOOOO!
July 1st, 2008 at 6:01 pm
awesome, pure gold
thanks